Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching, and Appreciating Boys

Boys will be boys, they say. But what does it really mean to raise real men? In a world that often overlooks the unique challenges and strengths of boys, it is essential for parents and educators to understand the importance of survival, teaching, and appreciation when it comes to raising boys into confident, responsible adults. Let's explore the journey of raising real men and discover valuable insights along the way.

The Unique Challenges of Raising Boys

Boys face a distinct set of challenges as they grow up. From dealing with societal expectations to navigating their own emotions, understanding these challenges is crucial in supporting their growth and development. One of the primary hurdles is the pressure to conform to certain masculine stereotypes. Boys are often expected to be strong, stoic, and resilient – qualities that may inhibit emotional expression and vulnerability.

Another challenge is the prevalence of negative influences in modern society, such as violent media or toxic masculine portrayals. These influences can shape boys' perception of what it means to be a man, making it necessary for parents and educators to counterbalance these messages with positive role models and healthy communication.

Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching and Appreciating Boys

by Hal Young(Kindle Edition)

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The Importance of Surviving

Raising boys requires survival skills – the ability to weather storms and guide them through challenging times. This involves recognizing the unique physical and emotional needs of boys, providing them with a strong support system, and fostering resilience.

Physical activity is an essential aspect of survival for boys. Regular exercise allows them to channel their energy and maintain optimal health. Engaging in sports, outdoor activities, and physical play can also teach boys valuable lessons about teamwork, discipline, and perseverance.

Mental and emotional survival is equally vital. Boys need the tools to identify and express their feelings effectively. Encouraging open communication, active listening, and providing a safe space for them to share their experiences can facilitate emotional growth and resilience.

The Art of Teaching Boys

Education is a critical component of raising real men. As boys' minds develop, parents and educators must understand their unique learning styles and tailor teaching approaches accordingly. Traditional classroom settings often favor girls' learning styles, which can leave boys disengaged or labeled as disruptive.

To effectively teach boys, a hands-on and experiential approach is often more beneficial. Incorporating practical activities, real-world examples, and incorporating technology can make learning engaging and relevant to their lives.

Mentorship plays a vital role in teaching boys important life skills and values. Engaging male role models can provide guidance and impart valuable knowledge, which is especially beneficial for boys lacking a strong father figure.

Appreciating the Journey

Raising real men is undoubtedly challenging, but it is also a rewarding journey that should be cherished and appreciated. By recognizing and celebrating boys' strengths and unique qualities, parents and educators can foster their self-confidence and a positive sense of identity.

Encouraging boys to embrace their passions, hobbies, and talents is vital. Whether it's art, sports, science, or any other pursuit, supporting their interests nurtures their individuality and helps them develop a sense of purpose.

It is also crucial to celebrate the small victories along the way. Recognizing boys' achievements, no matter how minor, provides positive reinforcement and encourages them to strive for more.

Raising real men is a journey that requires survival skills, effective teaching methods, and appreciation for boys' unique qualities. By understanding their challenges, providing support, and celebrating their achievements, parents and educators can make a profound impact on boys' lives, preparing them to become confident, responsible men in a rapidly changing world.

Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching and Appreciating Boys

by Hal Young(Kindle Edition)

4.6 out of 5

Language	:	English
File size	:	532 KB
Text-to-Speech	:	Enabled
Enhanced typesetting	:	Enabled
X-Ray	:	Enabled
Word Wise	:	Enabled
Print length	:	256 pages
Lending	:	Enabled
Screen Reader	:	Supported

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Product Description
"Six boys!" folks say in mock horror, "Well, better you than me."
We answer them cheerfully - we love our boys and they're a gift from God...a reward.

Privately, though, we admit to ourselves it's not always rosy. Teenaged boys put away a startling amount of groceries. Young boys can be downright destructive. They're noisy, unconcerned with personal hygiene, and the dog has a longer attention span - or so it seems, some days.

If this is God's chosen gift to us, then why does it seem so hard? How can we prepare these boys to serve God when we can barely make it through the day. Isn't there a better way?

The answer is yes.

Raising Real Men looks beyond the untied shoes and dirty jeans to what the Lord means your son to be. Learn how to help him focus on schoolwork, find real heroes, stand alone when he needs to, and become a real man one day. Don t just survive raising boys, succeed at it and learn how to love them as they really are.

Reviews

Raising Real Men is for real men who aspire to pass on a legacy of strength, courage and fidelity to Christ our King. It encouraged me as a father. I pray it will encourage you. -- Dr. R.C. Sproul, Jr., Author of When You Rise Up

Hal and Melane Young have six sons and are disciples of Jesus. They know how to raise real men. This book is a treasure trove of practical tips to help you to raise your sons right. It will answer your questions, help you avoid mistakes, bring them up in the Lord, and understand them. I highly recommend it. -- Chris Klicka, Author of The Right Choice

As the grandfather of six boys ranging in age from two to fifteen, I am acutely aware of the need that this book fills, and quite admirably. This is just what the doctor ordered for parents who want to raise capable Christian men of character. --John Rosemond, Parenting Columnist and Author of Parenting by the Book

In a time when our culture seems intent on emasculating our boys, it is a real pleasure to find Christians who are pushing back, responding with biblical answers. Raising Real Men combines a number of important characteristics in giving advice to parents of young boys it is earthy, realistic, humorous and scriptural. --Douglas Wilson, Author of Future Men

This is a book that every family should have no matter the number of boys and even those families without boys as the book gives tremendous insight into understanding how boys think and why they act as they do. This book meets a crying need in an area where there is very little specific direction. Thank you Hal and Melanie for this outstanding work of the Lord. --J. Michael Smith, Esq., President, Home School Legal Defense Association

Hal and Melanie Young truly have done parents everywhere a tremendous service. Raising Real Men is a powerful parenting guide written with heart, humor, insight, and years of time-tested experience. Each page offers stories, suggestions, and biblical applications that will practically equip you for the tremendous challenge and privilege of raising your own sons into Godly manhood. Hal and Melanie are passionate about not only raising sons to become men, but to become men of vision, character, and uncommon compassion and self-sacrifice. I wish I had read Raising Real Men years ago. It is a wisdom-packed resource, and I heartily recommend it to you. --Phil Downer, President, Discipleship Network of America

Hal and Melanie Young’s Raising Real Men is long overdue. This book manages to be a bold corrective to the feminization of boys and men in our culture, without simply being reactionary. They have thought deeply, biblically and well about the difference between the ways boys and girls are wired as well as the different roles God has for them to fulfill. In an era when the church has lost a biblical concept of masculinity and femininity this book is a breath of fresh air. -- Dr. Tedd Tripp, Author, Shepherding a Child's Heart